HELP FROM BAN

Fw: i need help from ban Dawn Marshall To: store1946@theupsstore.com · Tue, Jul 25, 2023 at 2:23 PM Message Body ----- Forwarded Message ----- From: Dawn Marshall To: "austinbangroup@yahoo.com" Sent: Saturday, November 27, 2010 at 02:04:36 AM CST Subject: Re: i need help from ban Tricia, I will try to sum it up without writing a book but it's a extremely difficult task. I have bee married for eight years I have 4 children three are his. My eldest daughter is from a previous relationship. I have asked him to move out on several occasions he refuses to go it's a control and manipulation thing not love. He had an affair with his boss and he is still lying to me and is still trying to control and manipulate me. It's always worked for him before so he falsely thinks it's going to work again. Over the last three years I've been dragged through the gutters of existence and now that i have a new lease on life i will never be pushed into the darkness again. However I have proven to myself I need help staying on track if he's nice for two hours in an entire day it's a good day. I've done the love dare over and over again and i find that while adhering to the dare i become more of a victim of his verbal and emotional abuse. I have days wear i reminisce of all the things he was doing and saying while he was sleeping with her, I don't truly know the truth behind all the events so i make assumptions as to the details of their relationship. I think i do this as a way to protect myself remind myself why it's over and make sure i do not put those rose colored glasses on again. After being able to go within myself and see that i can love myself in a way that he never loved me, make myself important and a priority every memory i have of our relationship looked completely different. I am a person who is driven by guilt(catholic school girl), and if i don't wake up and stop the guilt unsafe people will control me manipulate me and victimize me. I have not filed the divorce because of finding the right attorney i was going to it all myself and save money but i was told it wasn't a good idea. i have to go and file a court order to get him forced out of my home. i already sold my wedding ring, and i changed my name already. I am in need of people who know what i'm living and help me stay on track, stop my visions of the two of them and begin my forgivness process so i can be a provider for my kids. I think forgiveness has been been put on hold because I feel if i forgive and forget i will just be in the same postion again of getting evidence and confessions of infidelity. Dawn Neering From: T Ojeda To: Dawn Marshall Sent: Fri, November 26, 2010 1:17:50 PM Subject: Re: i need help from ban Dawn, I am SO sorry that I haven't written sooner. Our internet has been down and I've been off of work for the past week. We will be meeting soon. With that being said: I'm glad you're reaching out. Can you tell me a bit about your situation? Are you separated or still together or something in-between? Do you have children? How long have you been married? When was your d-day? I ask these questions to better help you and to protect our group. I believe that you will find this group to be a haven on your journey back to healing. I really believe the others in this group helped to save my life. I hope to hear from you soon. I will send more info as soon as possible. Warmly, Tricia From: Dawn Marshall To: austinbangroup@yahoo.com Sent: Tue, November 9, 2010 6:01:58 PM Subject: i need help from ban Hello, my name is Dawn and I am recovering from my husbands' extramaterial affair and need help from ban to keep myself on track. Dawn Neering 210-858-9857 mummx4@yahoo.com Reply Forward