EX MADE A CHOICE IT IS TOO LATE NOW

Fw: you made your choice Dawn Marshall To: store1946@theupsstore.com · Tue, Jul 25, 2023 at 2:22 PM Message Body ----- Forwarded Message ----- From: Dawn Marshall To: "gjm6245@yahoo.com" Cc: "gm6245@gmail.com" Sent: Tuesday, November 9, 2010 at 03:14:31 AM CST Subject: you made your choice 3. Does the person who had the affair have to "come clean" to improve the chances of the relationship working, or should they keep the affair to themselves? The answer is yes; with infidelity, as in all other aspects of LTLRs, openness, honesty and the lack of deceit are vital for long-term intimacy and relationship success. More information on infidelity: Warning Signs of Infidelity How and Why to Forgive Trust: How to get it back Forgive Him... for Now Rebuild Trust after Betrayal But there are three distinct scenarios to consider when answering this question. The first and most problematic is when there is an ongoing or recently ended infidelity that the betrayed partner does not know about. The only way for the LTLR to heal, to become stronger so that infidelity will not reoccur, is for the betraying partner to reveal it. This is the only way the couple can overcome the individual and relationship dysfunction that led to the infidelity. In addition, when the betrayal was long-term in duration and/or included feelings of love, the more important it is to reveal it. The second scenario involves how open and honest to be when the betrayed partner knows about or just suspects the infidelity. Again, in order for the betrayed partner to recover and the couple to heal, it is essential that the betraying partner be as honest and open as possible. Answering the betrayed partner's questions completely is the only way to get over the infidelity, and the only way they can work through it and get beyond the hurt to recommit to the relationship and rebuild trust. Reply Forward