Trance like state

He stands there for hours just like that in a trance not moving not speaking. What kind of brain washing has he been threw? 

John was using his phone and there was bleeps like you would hear from a game or notifications from certain kinds of service. Chris could hear it loud and clear and he said boldly please stop playing that right now he was agitated and upset. John could hear him came into the kitchen rolled his eyes and shook his head. This is important as to what's going on with Chris. John had told me that he used to work in Mental Health Services he told me some of the techniques that he was using while he worked and Mental Health Services when they come at you with crazy talk you give it right back to them and you act crazy right back in their face. I'm not kidding he really said this stupid thing. I don't know who trained this man to work in Mental Health Services but that creates more of a problem. I don't think add to tating the mentally unstable is a good idea. I think it's important to watch and listen closely and have an open mind and I'm learning that John does not possess an open mind.

The other thing that I've noticed that I find to be extremely important is the fact that Chris keeps his hands closed in a fifth and he keeps his hands close to his abdomen. This is something that we see in premature babies. They always keep their hands closed and they can't stand anybody touching their hands. This is a coincidence or commonality that should be paid attention to. During studies doctors and psychologists have found that premature babies will outgrow this perhaps not all of them will.
Chris doesn't like to shower just like to take the time to shower. He has to be threatened and coerced in an aggressive manner to get him into the shower. I had a 17 year old nephew that did the same thing. I assumed that it was a phase that abused children go through it's a sign of abuse. it's abuse that's what it's a sign of. Chris is 38 years old. Most people grow out of the phase the sign of abuse at this point in time in his life he has not gotten past it